sincere in love
Some people think that the name sincerity that exists only in matters of worship such as prayer alone, fasting, charity, reading the Qur'an, pilgrimage and religious deeds, others. Know that sincerity should be there in the practices associated with muamalah.
When you smile on your sister, you must be sincere. When you visit your sister, you must be sincere. When you lend your sister's stuff he needs, you must sincerity. It is not you do it all but simply because God, you smile at your sister's not because he's so good to you, you did not lend or help your sister that someday soon when you need something else then you will be assisted by him or not is also because are you afraid to say as a cheapskate. No, O my sister, make all the charity because of God.
The Messenger of Allaah alaihi wa sallam said : There's a man who visited his brother in another city, then God sent an angel on his journey, when the angel met him, the angel asked," Where are you? "So he said" I want to visit my brother who lives in this city. "Then the angel again asked" Do you have an interest that benefit you with? "the man replied:" No, it's just that I visit because I love him because God, the angel had said "Behold I am a messenger of God to preach to you that Allah loves you as you love your brother because of him. (Narrated by Muslim)
Consider this hadith, is not this person is visiting his brother but only because of God, so in return, God will love that person. Do not you want to be loved by God.
In another hadits, the Messenger of Allaah alaihi wa sallam said, "It's not that you feed your family with these actions you expect God's face, then your actions will be rewarded by God, even to a bite of food that you put in the mouth of your wife." (Bukhari Muslim )
Think about these words of his, even just a mouthful of food that a man put on his mouth, if done sincerely for Allah, then Allah will give reward. How it is with your dedication to your husband that you are willing to do for God? not that all will be rewarded and the reward greater...? It is an extremely lucky if we can be great to present sincerity in all our movements.
Muslim Sister who may be loved by Allah, which is required in our acts of charity is not charity but without much sincerity. charity is considered small in the human eye, if we do it sincerely for Allah, then Allah will accept and magnifies the reward of those deeds of charity. Abdullah bin Mubarak said, How many small practices become great because of intentions, and how many great deeds to be small simply because the intention."
The Messenger of Allaah alaihi wa sallam said : A man saw a tree branch in the middle of the road, he said: By Allah I will get rid of these branches so as not to interfere with the Muslims, then he went to heaven because of it. (Narrated by Muslim).
